What‘s Your Position?

FULL FRONTAL: Ball Leash, Sapphic Playlists & Sex Dice: Athena from Arya joins us for discussions about deeper intimacy

Episode Title: Get Intimate with Athena and Arya!
Hello Fellow Humans! This week on What's Your Position, we're thrilled to bring you a Full Frontal episode featuring the radiant and sultry Athena! As a product tester, playlist curator, and content creator for the oh-so-spicy Arya subscription box, Athena dives into the ins and outs of her fascinating job.
We’re unpacking it all—new boxes like Edge, Adore, and Pose—and why adding a touch of music to your intimate moments is a total game-changer. Athena shares juicy tidbits about why orgasms should be on your daily to-do list (yes, please!), how to cultivate deeper intimacy with your partner, and the research that backs it all up. Did you know that couples who have regular deep conversations report their relationships are 33% more satisfying? Or that vulnerable communication can lead to a 60% improvement in your sex life?
But wait, there’s more! We dive into the art of sexting—how it’s not just a spicy addition but a powerful way to stay connected. We also explore how showing intimacy in front of others, like holding hands or sharing loving glances, can translate to even more closeness and passion in the bedroom. And because music makes everything better, we discuss how the right tunes can set the mood, deepen your connection, and enhance your relationship in unexpected ways.
With over 15 customizable boxes, personalized quizzes, and a concierge service to spice up your connection, Arya is revolutionizing date nights. Tune in as we explore how Arya takes the guesswork out of intimacy while adding layers of fun, passion, and, let’s be real, orgasms!
Don’t forget to snag your Arya box with our exclusive code WYP15 for 15% off your first three months. Head to Arya.Fyi, take the quiz, and start creating unforgettable moments.
Come join us for a steamy, insightful, and oh-so-fun episode. Let’s play!
Athena created a What's your position Playlist JUST FOR OUR LISTENERS! 
WYP Sexy Playlist
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Arya, your erotic concierge for a sexy date night

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PT2: Attachment Styles; How to deepen your relationships through self reflection

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 2: Ever wonder how your attachment style affects your relationships, from sparks to emotional hiccups? In this episode, we’ll dive into attachment theory and explore the four main attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Fearful-Avoidant (also called Disorganized). We’ll break down how each style shapes our behavior, communication, and emotional needs in relationships and why knowing your style can be the ultimate game-changer in building healthier connections.
Did you know that studies show about 50% of adults identify as Secure, while 20% report an Anxious attachment style, 25% are Avoidant, and the remaining 5% fall under the Fearful-Avoidant style? Understanding these stats helps us see that everyone has attachment-related tendencies, but it’s possible to grow into a more Secure attachment.
We’ll also share practical ways to move toward secure attachment, whether through self-awareness, therapy, or relationship adjustments. By the end, you’ll have actionable tools to make your connections more balanced, fulfilling, and less reactive. Join us as we dig deep into the psychology behind attachment and offer tips for growth and mutual understanding!

QUICKIE: Sex and Anxiety; Learning about the worlds most common disorder and how it affects our sex life

WE ARE THANK FUL FOR YOU!  Enjoy this bonus episode of WYP for your long weekend of family gatherings!
 
Ever find yourself wondering why men are still expected to pop the question or why dating apps feel like an endless loop of awkward encounters? Is your dating life one bad date away from becoming a monastic retreat? Trust us, you’re not alone. The dating scene is a bit of a rigged game, and we’re here to unpack why!
HELLO ANXIOUS HUMANS! Did you know that over 80% of the population will experience an anxiety disorder at some point in their lives? That’s right! Anxiety is basically the overbearing parent of mental health—always hovering, ready to critique your every move! In this quickie, we’re diving deep into how this sneaky little gremlin can throw a wrench in our love lives, sex lives, and relationships like a bad rom-com plot twist.
Ever tried to be romantic when your heart feels like it's doing the cha-cha? We’ll talk about the physical sensations that come with anxiety, from that delightful stomach flip that starts as butterflies but quickly turns into a full-blown hornet’s nest. Then there’s the mind game that can turn a sweet date into an internal monologue of “Do I look okay? What if they don’t like my choice of pasta? Am I talking too much?!”—and just when you think you might seal the deal, anxiety decides to crash the party, leaving you feeling more like a deer in headlights than a seductive starlet.
But wait—let's get steamy! Did you know that nearly 30% of men report experiencing performance anxiety? Yes, that pressure to perform can turn a night of passion into an episode of “Survivor: Bedroom Edition,” where the stakes are high, and the tension is palpable! We'll explore how anxiety can mess with your mojo, making that path to pleasure feel like running a marathon in stilettos—difficult, wobbly, and downright amusing.
Join me as I share my personal rollercoaster of living with anxiety every single day. We'll break down tips to not just survive, but thrive in your relationship while juggling those anxiety-induced challenges.
And if you’re the partner of someone wrestling with this beast, I’ve got your back, too! We’ll discuss effective ways to support your loved one—no, you don’t need to don a cape, but maybe bring a little humor and lots of empathy to the table. After all, laughter can be the best aphrodisiac when navigating the murky waters of anxiety.
So, buckle up for a fun, sexy, and insightful ride as we navigate the ups and downs of love and anxiety together. Remember, in this wild journey called life, stay safe, stay kind, and—most importantly—stay sexy!

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PT1: Love Languages; How to deepen your relationships through self reflection

AFTERNOON DELIGHT SERIES: We want to bring you ideas for better relationships. On part one we ask; Are the traditional five love languages still the best way to understand what we need in a relationship? According to recent studies, nearly 80% of couples who engage in each other’s primary love language regularly experience deeper emotional intimacy. In this afternoon delight, we explore the origins of love languages, breaking down Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts, while also challenging listeners to consider how their love needs have shifted. Did you know that 65% of couples who understand each other's love languages report higher relationship satisfaction? Yet many feel that new love languages are emerging in today’s digital, fast-paced world. Could yours be ‘Arts and interests’ or ‘intelligence’?
We’ll discuss ideas for new love languages that reflect modern needs, shifting norms, and evolving values, helping couples connect on levels beyond the original five. Whether you’re fluent in ‘I love you’ or searching for new ways to express it, this episode has something for everyone ready to rethink love.

Full Frontal: Between Butt Plugs and Bibles; Worship the Queen peasant with Sophia Domina

Hello Fellow Humans! On this episode we sat down with the captivating Sophia Domina for an in-depth, raw conversation about kink, religion, and empowerment. We dove headfirst into topics some might find shocking—like the juxtaposition of butt plugs and Bibles—and explored the complex ways sexuality and spirituality can intersect. 
Sophia shared her journey as a dominatrix, revealing how BDSM can be a liberating force for both her and her clients. We talked about religious guilt, sexual freedom, and how embracing your desires can actually lead to personal growth and self-discovery. Did you know that 1 in 6 Americans has dabbled in BDSM? That statistic alone shows how far we've come in normalizing kink, but there’s still a long way to go in shedding shame, especially when it comes to sexuality and religion.
**Key Takeaways**:1. BDSM can be an empowering practice, helping people reclaim control and confront societal shame.2. There’s often a strong connection between religious guilt and the exploration of sexuality.3. Setting boundaries and clear communication are crucial in any sexual relationship, especially in kink.4. Embracing your authentic self—kinks and all—can lead to deeper emotional and personal growth.
If you're curious about Sophia's work, make sure to check out her new book and more on her website Sophiadomina.com

Quickie: Ghosts That F*ck; Incubi, Succubae and Spooky Sexual Encounters

Hello spooky Humans! Welcome to our annual Halloween episode! Did you know that in a study done on those with sleep disorders over 18% reported a sexual encounter with an unknown entity? On this years super scary episode we discuss the ghosts that haunt not just our houses, but our dreams too! Incubi and Succubae have been around for centuries and in this quickie we tell you all about their origins, some scary stories from celebrities and regular folk alike and some statistics about these sex demons. Get ready for some fun and freaky facts all about f**king ghosts!  

FULL FRONTAL: What the Hell is Ethical Porn; With the founder of Afterglow Lily!

Hello fellow humans Did you know that around 70% of humans consume some type of P*RN in their lifetime? ON today's Full Frontal we speak to Lily, the founder of XO Afterglow, an ethical sex-based media site that offers not just erotic films, but erotic classes or "Edu-p*rn"" as well as blogs about sex and how to videos. Since the majority of teens say they get their sex education from P*RN, we think this episode is imperative for explaining how we can use erotic art and film to better our sex lives and make sure the performer's in the films get paid, recognized and are not exploited! Check out this INCRDIBLE episode, listen to our favorite films on the site, how they make fake c*m and how much P*RN actors get paid! We also have a free trial for you all on XOAfterglow!
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Afterglow is a women-led platform dedicated to inspiring great sex by promoting female pleasure and confidence in fulfilling desires. Their ethical porn, made by women for women, emphasizes consent, fair treatment of performers, and accurate portrayals of sex. Subscribers gain access to guided masturbations, partner exercises, educational content, and a stress-free, secure viewing experience. 

QUICKIE: RIP Dr. Ruth; Paying homage to a legend

On this episode of WYP we look back at the life of a legend, Dr. Ruth. 
Karola Ruth Siegel on June 4, 1928, in Wiesbaden, Germany, lived a life full of fascinating twists. As a Jewish child fleeing Nazi Germany, she was sent to a Swiss orphanage during WWII. Post-war, she moved to Israel and became a sniper for the Haganah—talk about a dramatic start!
In the 1950s, Dr. Ruth moved to the U.S. and took a unique path into sexual health. Her radio show “Sexually Speaking” in the 1980s made her a household name with her no-nonsense, yet warm and funny approach to sex and relationships. She also made big waves at Planned Parenthood, where she championed sexual health education.
Even in her 90s, she kept sharing her wisdom through numerous books and television appearances until her passing on June 26, 2023. She is one of our major inspirations and we hope you love her too! “The more we learn about our bodies, the more we understand that sex is a natural part of who we are.” 

FULL FRONTAL: Limitless Love with Ally Iseman; How to find your passport to pleasure

Hello Humans! In our first Full Frontal of Season 5 we sit down with Ally Iseman, owner and founder of Passport To pleasure; an expansive relationship guide that helps any couple looking to explore the concepts of ethical non-monogamy. She gives us the run down of her journey into this space and her 6 principals to a better relationship (22:00). We also discuss the four phases of Limitless Love (52:00) and how to take a relationship from the curious to the constructive! 
Ally Iseman is a writer, relationship coach, and non-monogamy educator based in Los Angeles who has been featured in The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Well+Good, Yahoo!, PureWow, and more. She is a sought after speaker and podcast guest who teaches busy couples on the brink how to build a bulletproof relationship that lasts. Download her free Relationship Ratio workbook to see if your relationship is ready to open up without blowing up!

Season 5 is Alive! Welcome back fellow humans!

Hello fellow Humans! We are back for season 5 of What's Your Position and boy oh boy do we have some exciting news! Check out our first episode and learn all about our new logo, and new website! We are featuring mostly in person episodes this season so if you see more "Quickies" that's why! We love that you are still with us on this journey and we thank you all for listening and sharing the information with your friends! CHEERS TO SEASON 5!